Dear Parent

Mum and daughter hugging on busy street

If you don’t have a child with learning disabilities, please read on to understand more.  This is our reality. If like me you do have an offspring with learning disabilities you’ll experience life very differently to the rest of society.  Dear Parent, How are you doing today? If we haven’t met before I’m Jen’s mum, occasionally known as Sue.  Today … Read More

Solving the SEND Crisis – our opinions and evidence

Jen Blackwell on BBC North West Today

The UK Government Education Committee inquiry “will focus on how to achieve both short term stability and long-term sustainability for the SEND system to improve experiences and outcomes for children and young people.” January 2025. We have submitted written evidence as parents of a 43 year old daughter with Down’s syndrome and feel that opening up the conversations, encouraging and … Read More

Eternal Opportunism

Malcolm, Sue and Jen Blackwell wearing hats in the snowy cold of Colorado January 2025

I have a problem.  I have eternal opportunism written into my DNA.  My glass is (almost) always half full, because if half empty I’d have walked off the end of that metaphorical short plank a long long time ago; or as Malcolm says, it keeps the men in white coats at bay. So how about you?  Do you have clear … Read More

Thank you for being part of extraordinary lives

Donna Wheeldon and Jen Blackwell standing next to each other on stairs in graduation robes before Jen's honorary degree graduation July 2024

We have so much to give thanks for. So many people over the years have said “yes”, or “I don’t know but have you tried…” and supported our ambition that Jen born with Down’s syndrome, and others like her to be treated like any other human being – having the right support and opportunities to pursue their dreams and follow … Read More

The week that was spreading joy and happiness

Lady in red coat holding phone camera next to white male with grey hair next to white lady in grey coat with cream scarf. All smiling looking in mirror for photograph

The week that was!  The precursor to the eventful week anticipated! Life with and for Jen is full on in so many wonderful ways no one could ever have foreseen. As a dancer Jen has made her mark.  As a daughter, sister, aunt, niece, cousin, friend she is loved.  As a leader, a flagbearer, a multi-award winner, a role model, … Read More

Leaders from unexpected places

Malcolm, white male in tuxedo and Sue, white female in dress and jacket smiling at each other with love

Awards raise profile and awareness.  This is our first exposure on a global stage making the largest minority in society more visible creating increased awareness for those in the room, opening eyes to the marginalized.   Intellectual disability affects people from all walks of life across the world but all too often they are hidden from view rather than celebrated as … Read More

Do you see me

The business of changing lives

For Learning Disability Awareness Week 2024 this question, “Do you see me?” posed by Mencap is so deep and so profound, whilst simultaneously distressing, disappointing, and painful that it even merits consideration. It is a sad travesty of the 21st century, an inditement of the way society has stood idly by as people who happen to be learning disabled or … Read More

Changing lives one person at a time

DanceSyndrome impacts families

When the idea for gathering dancers with and without learning disabilities together to learn skills, create choreography and support each other to develop it was because nothing existed to support our daughter Jen to do what she wanted to do – Dance. Jen, with a her support team at that time, came up with idea in her bedroom, then put … Read More

Express Day 24 review

Dancers with and without learning disabilities Express Day 24

Dodging the cloud bursts we arrived at Blackburn Empire Theatre excited to watch Express 24, the annual show of the multi-faceted talented dance charity, DanceSyndrome. The Sunken Forest was an opportunity to put aside the cares of the world, allow yourself to be enveloped by finely wrought, enthralling, enchanting spell binding ballet.  The dance was absorbing as dancers shared their … Read More

Working together

Donna and Jen working together. Photo by Melissa Cross for Empower Housing Association

It’s fascinating what the two words, “working together” conjure up  isn’t it? Does it really mean two or more people joining together in an equitable relationship to create something? Or does it mean that someone is wanting to do something for you that really only benefits them or their organisation, but because it may be seen as “helpful” it can … Read More