I believe that world changing action will only result when all sectors of society are given license and opportunity to be heard, not just the educated or elite. Because everybody matters.
I speak personally and passionately from an extraordinary experience of life.
Thinking differently allows innovation, acting differently unlocks potential, offering opportunities creates fulfilment, with improbable unlikely unexpected outcomes .
This is my belief played out in front of my eyes every day. For tens of years many people thought I was totally deranged.
From writing Jen off at birth they thought supporting her as we did wasn’t worth the effort, but today I feel like the luckiest parent alive. I live my life enriched and impacted by learning disabilities each and every day. I watch in awe as the pioneering DanceSyndrome and Jen forge onwards sharing and contributing, spreading happiness, joy and well-being in their wake.
Society needs to rediscover humanity through humility. Only then will marginalised people be heard and empowered to contribute.
A society driven by ableism loses sight of humanity. It disregards huge swathes of the population who are effectively silenced, people such as those with learning disabilities, the 10s of 000s who are insecure surviving rather than thriving, those who are socially isolated or dealing with mental health challenges.
Without a voice in their preferred language such people will never be heard. Listening compassionately, attentively and intelligently with humility will enable marginalised people to be heard. It will liberate their thoughts and creativity enabling them to challenge and change the system, influence others, become leaders, be seen and respected as inspirational thought provoking people rather than the label that society chooses to define them by.
Leaders can come from unexpected places. When empowered to lead people become contributors to the common good, a force for good. They become less needy, less dependent on ‘the system’. Instead they stimulate communities, create opportunities, see innovative creative solutions the rest of us are blind to whilst simultaneously becoming more confident, self-respecting, happier.
I want to spread hope across every sector of society and especially to parents/carers of young people with learning disabilities.
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If you’d like me to share on your podcast, at your conference or contribute more to ensuring we take the steps to rediscover humanity through humility get in touch.
5 Comments on “Manifesto: Rediscovering humanity through humility ”
Simply powerful, Sue. – Love the work you are doing as you truly “walk your talk”…. ‘Being humble means recognizing that we are not on earth to see how important we can become but to see how much difference we can make in the lives of others.’
The more I dwell on this Dennis, the more I am mystified why we, society, have created such a mountain, or perhaps a monolith. The bigger/taller/stronger that structure, the harder to reinvent, think differently, create a space and place where every citizen can thrive. It’s a total anathema to me, and borne out by Jen as she thrives living the life of her choosing. I’m loving being further removed from Jen’s day to day environment making learning from her easier but also more joyful. It is totally humbling to be able to witness what you have believed throughout your life playing out in front of your eyes.
Thanks
Sue
BRAVA, Sue! Cheering for you, for Jen, and for your family. Your voices are so important as you speak up, spread hope, drive change, and foster understanding and compassion. Please tell us how can we help you in your commitment to “spread hope across every sector of society and especially to parents/carers of young people with learning disabilities.” You and Jen inspire me. You inspire many!
Hi Sharon, fabulous to receive such powerful feedback. Thanks for hearing our message, and for sharing on. We seek to reach people, especially those who have the whole of their lives ahead of them. We want societies to think differently. To remove stigmas, barriers and limitations to the aspirations of people with learning disabilities.
We can and would love to make meaningful contributions to conferences, events, podcasts, to publish articles and collaborate with the likes of yourself who share our vision and understand our mission.
One of Jen’s stated wants from 21 years ago is ‘to share my passion and travel the world with my dance!’ She also wants a jumbo jet with DanceSyndrome emblazoned down it’s side!!!
Looking forward to developing our connection through the power of stories.
What a wonderful manifesto. I love what you and Jen have achieved. You inspire so many and lead the way to a better world. Thank you